w e may face trouble when hit with the seriousness of life. Until it happens we really have no idea how we will react, how we will deal with our trauma or what significant events it may bring back from the past. Until we are faced with loss, we have no idea if we get over things quickly, get depressed, sleep, over eat, under eat, drink alcohol etc. Loss is a soul event, our souls have to deal with whatever it is no longer being there. A loved one, a pet, a teacher, a best friend, a job, even graduating from high school can be traumatic to some. Why are these totally natural events much harder for some to deal with than others? If we realize we do really destructive things when faced with these events can we change our behavior and how? Can we change our entire way of reacting to life events especially in the midst of dealing with a loss? Well, I am sure you can tell in the leading question, of course my answer is going to be yes, we can heal, we can retrain our thinking and yes ev...